Around Here

It has been a busy summer! We've had lots of changes going on at the house, mostly a few upgrades and additions. Looking back, I have to say my husband was a really good sport and, as usual, very generous with me!

Get ready for home improvement overload:


Remember our kitchen's original look here.

Our kitchen during demo and after removal of the old nasty green counters:

We eventually got to this:

It is amazing what a little paint and updated countertops did for our tight but efficient kitchen. Counters by Natural Granite and Marble here in Raleigh, paint Secret Passage by Olympic.

I initially was concerned with how much black was part of the granite but have grown to love it over time!

This was not the original faucet planned for and purchased. We won't get into details, but my advice is to over-communicate with your granite company. 50/50 and 60/40 sinks require different faucets! I have learned to live with it and we won't live here forever, but Khaner loves it and is happy with its last minute purchase.

Love my new apocrathy jar for coffee beans - Home Goods steal!

I was slightly paranoid about our stainless fridge and white appliances but our sweet realtor, Becka came by for dinner and told me to leave as is. A piece of advice I know the hubs is happy about. 

My new dresser from Cape Fear Antiques in Wilmington - HIGHLY recommend if looking for high-end quality antiques without the enormous price tag. Karen and her husband are fantastic and I love supporting local (well, at least North Carolina) businesses.

K's new highboy. He allegedly misses his black IKEA dresser. Black veneer isn't something I associate with nostalgia but I am glad it is for him, and his many years as a bachelor. He is now married and is expected to have tasteful pieces.

Our new headboard arrived, and I have to say, am so thankful for my career in ecommerce. The reviews on this piece were phenomenal from all places - TARGET! I was paranoid about having white bedding with a cream headboard but I am embracing more of the "buy what you love" school of thought. This isn't Veranda, it's your home! Do what you love.

New shams - Euros from Horchow by Pinecone Hill and Standards from One Kings Lane. Khaner threw a fit that we now had eight pillows on the bed but I think he has moved on. What sent him over the edge was my monogrammed bodouir pillow from Etsy. I found it underneath the bed collecting dust after its debut on the bed. There was some mumbling and cussing under the breath that eventually led to him telling me no grown ass man has a frilly girly pillow like that on his bed. The bodouir pillow has not made its return.

Our new Fast Dry Sunbrella Cushions in Canopy Stripe Black and Sand from Ballard Designs. I have to admit, it took a lot for me to bite the bullet and commit to these and its hefty price tag.  I am SO glad I did. It took several weeks and dollars, but in the end, I am so glad we did it. Scheduled to host over 20 people on the Fourth, I was paranoid the first week they were outside was during Hurricane Arthur. Thursday we experienced torrential downpour and then found each of them bone dry the next day in time for our party.

One of the things I try to keep in mind when making large purchases is my mother's mantra: "Buy what you will love the rest of your life." It has been helpful in determining what is not always trendy but timeless and classic.

I think part of the blogging process is to show that you don't always make the best choices. These placements and matching coasters were impulse buys on One Kings Lane and once they arrived I definitely felt like they were loud and maybe out of place in what is a very tight and subdued dining room. Khaner came home and immediately inquired on the return policy. It's hard to remember a man has to look at all the things you choose each day too. And often times pay for them. Sorry Khaner.

We finally have a home for all of Khaner's toys - drills, tools, rakes, chainsaws, edgers, weeders, etc. They are no longer stuffed to the max throughout our laundry and mud rooms, thank the Lord!

One of the things I have learned in our home improvement projects is that very few go according to plan,  some of the vendors you will work with don't have MBA's from Harvard, and you need to have FUN! Too often I find myself over-planning every aspect and I need my husband to remind me these are all fun BLESSINGS and to roll with the punches. It's life, it's messy and it's never perfect. Do your research and be specific with what you want. And enjoy it!